Log in

No account? Create an account
Jun. 26th, 2005 @ 05:14 pm Hey I haven't posted here in a long time
Current Mood: crushedcrushed
I actually meant someone and it started out great and ended in a nightmare!

All I can say is, trust your instincts.

I kept telling this guy I felt like there was someone else and he kept telling me it was all in my head. I hadn't dated in so long and I was afraid. I was looking for things to be wrong etc.

Also any guy that uses his cell phone excessivly should put up flags for you. Text messaging you all the time is a BIG flag!

Having a set of "rules' for things. Like when he can and can't be called is another flag.

If he has set days he doesn't see you.

Mine was on Tues and Thurs. He used to spend weekends at my house from Fri nigh on. Then all of a sudden the days shifted and he stopped coming over on Friday nights. After starting a fight.

Also, if everything that goes wrong gets twisted around to some how be your fault, there's a problem there too.

I can't stress enough to trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right and the guy doesn't go out of his way to do something to make you feel better about the situation.

It's so much better to (even though it's hard to do)to just walk away from the relationship. It will save you a great deal of stress and heartache later on down the road.

Anyone else got any more tips? I could go on and on, but my mind is muddled.
About this Entry